Cameron Munter, the former U.S. ambassador to Pakistan, looked suntanned, but not rested, as he sat in a Foggy Bottom bar a few blocks from the State Department on a fall evening. He placed an Islamabad Golf baseball cap on the table, a souvenir from a decades-long career that had recently ended in a public flameout.

This past May, it was announced that Munter would be leaving his post. At the time, a State Department spokesman said he had made âa personal decisionâ to step down. But a few weeks after the announcement, The New York Timesâin an article about counterterrorism policyâquoted one of Munterâs colleagues saying the ambassador âdidnât realize his main job was to kill people.â
That didnât sound like the man I had met several months earlier at a party in Washingtonâback then, he seemed to relish his job as ambassador. I wondered why Munterâs colleague had said that, and I also wanted to know why he had resigned. He agreed to meet me at a bar to tell his side of the story, explaining that the Times had been wrong about him. It made him sound like a softie, he said, a mischaracterization that he wanted to correct.
Munterâwho grew up in Claremont, Calif.âwas no stranger to geopolitical hot spots even before he took the Pakistan job. He had been ambassador to Serbia from 2007 to 2009 and later served as deputy chief of mission in Baghdad.
It was Richard Holbrooke, then serving as special envoy for Pakistan and Afghanistan, who initially approached Munter about the ambassadorship to Pakistan. He arrived in Islamabad in October 2010; less than three months later, Holbrooke was admitted to a Washington hospital for heart surgery, and two days after that he was dead. âI miss him every day,â says Munter. âThe only reason I took that damn job is because he talked me into it, and then he died.â
Holbrooke had handed off an important but tough assignment. For months, the Obama administrationâs relations with Pakistan had been in steady decline. Instead of diplomacy, Washington was increasingly employing brass-knuckle techniques, such as threatening to cut back on aid. âWhen I get calls from the White House, they say, âDial up the pain,ââ Munter tells me. âIn Islamabad, they donât respond well to dialing up the pain.â
Soon, Americans and Pakistanis were fighting over the drone program, a contentious issue they had previously worked together on. And this would also become a major source of tension between Munter and Washington officials.
It wasnât that Munter was against drone strikes. âWe prevented major attacks,â Munter tells me. âTo me, thatâs my job, and Iâm proud we did it.â He also thinks allegations that drone strikes kill civilians are trumped up. âWe have people who bring us the bodies of little girls,â he says, stretching out his arms as if he were carrying a small corpse, âand say drones killed them. Theyâre making it up, or theyâre willfully believing lies.â
What Munter did want, however, was a more selective use of drones, coupled with more outreach to the Pakistani governmentâin short, a bigger emphasis on diplomacy and less reliance on force. âWhat theyâre trying to portray is Iâm shocked and horrified, and thatâs not my perspective,â he said, referring to The New York Times article. âThe use of drones is a good way to fight the war. But youâre going to kill drones if youâre not using them judiciously.â Munter thought the strikes should be carried out in a measured way. âThe problem is the political fallout,â he says. âDo you want to win a few battles and lose the war?â
âWhat is the definition of someone who can be targeted?â I asked. âThe definition is a male between the ages of 20 and 40,â Munter replied. âMy feeling is one manâs combatant is another manâsâwell, a chump who went to a meeting.â
Munter wanted the ability to sign off on drone strikesâand, when necessary, block them. Then-CIA director Leon Panetta saw things differently. Munter remembers one particular meeting where they clashed. âHe said, âI donât work for you,â and I said, âI donât work for you,ââ the former ambassador recalls. (George Little, a former CIA spokesman who is now at the Pentagonâwhere Panetta is currently serving as Defense secretaryâdisputed this account. âIâve heard these rumors before,â he said. âThatâs exactly what this is: rumor. [Panetta] has had productive relationships with Ambassador Munter and other ambassadors with whom he has worked.â)
The question of whether Munter should have had the ability to stop drone strikes was complicated. According to National Defense Universityâs Christopher Lamb, an ambassador has top authority at an embassy and should therefore be informed of CIA plans for covert action. And there is certainly precedent for this procedure. It is also true, however, that ambassadors historically have rarely objected to such operations when they are told about them.
That made what happened in March 2011 all the more extraordinary. That month, the CIA ordered a drone strike against militants in North Waziristan. Munter tried to stop the strike before it happened, but, according to the Associated Press, Panetta âdismissedâ Munterâs request.
The timing of the strike was noteworthy: it was the day after CIA contractor Raymond Davis, who had shot two Pakistani men, was released from a Lahore jail. The fact that Davis had been detained for weeks reportedly angered the CIA. âIt was in retaliation for Davis,â a former aide to Munter told the Associated Press, referring to the strike. (The CIA did not respond to my request for comment.) In the end, the strike killed at least 10 militants, and reportedly 19 or more civilians. And Munter wasnât the only one who was upset. So were the Pakistanis: Gen. Ashfaq Parvez Kayani, the Army chief, said the men had been âcallously targeted.â Rumors circulated that some of them were spies for the military, risking their lives to help fight the Taliban.
Following the strike, President Obama set up a more formal process by which diplomats could have input into these strikes. âI have a yellow card,â Munter recalled, describing the new policy. âI can say âno.â That ânoâ goes back to the CIA director. Then he has to go to Hillary. If Hillary says âno,â he can still do it, but he has to explain the next day in writing why.â
It was a limited victory for Munter, but his relationship with Washington remained difficult. Munter says he got along with Panettaâs successor at the CIA, David Petraeus. Still, with Holbrooke gone, the ambassador lacked powerful allies in the administration, and even his friends used the word âarrogantâ to describe him. Moreover, he did not get high marks as an administrator: an inspector-general report criticized the management of the Islamabad embassy, calling it âcontrolling.â
Yet insiders and outsiders agree that the main reason for his demise was not his personality, bossy or otherwise, but the fact that he was off message. âMunterâs argument was that it would be much better to engage Pakistan diplomatically rather than just to rely on pressure,â says Vali Nasr, who served as a senior adviser to Holbrooke and is now at Johns Hopkins University. âThe real issue was that he was not on the same page as Washington.â
During our interview, Munter criticized the way White House officials approached Pakistan. âThey say, âWhy donât we kick their ass?â Do we want to get mad at them? Take their car keys away? Or look at the larger picture?â He leaned back in his chair and recalled his last National Security Council meeting: âThe president says, âItâs an hour meeting, and weâre going to talk about Afghanistan for 30 minutes and then Pakistan for 30 minutes.â Seventy-five minutes later, we still havenât talked about Pakistan. Why? Because Pakistan is too fucking hard.â