Bill Maher is sounding a bit defensive about the fact that he only dates younger women.
During an appearance on the Fly on the Wall podcast with SNL alums Dana Carvey and David Spade, the Real Time With Bill Maher host insisted that only being attracted to women who arenât âage appropriateâ doesnât make him a bad guy.
After commenting that he and Spadeâwho have never marriedâwere the âlast two bachelors,â Maher, 68, said they should do the The Golden Bachelor.
âBut like our real lives, not with an age-appropriate woman, because thatâs boring,â he said. âBecause you know what? The appropriate age for a relationship is one that works.â
A quick perusal of Maherâs Wikipedia page suggests his partners have tended to remain in their early 30s even as Maher himself has gotten older.
In 2023, the wildly popular Bachelor franchise brought on its first âgolden bachelor,â widower and retired restaurateur Gerry Turner, who was 72 at the time. The women competing to win his love were all between 60 and 75 years old, with many viewers praising the substance the older contestants brought to a notoriously superficial show.
But Maher and his hosts were more interested in discussing age gaps.

After pointing out that former New England Patriots coach Bill Belichick, 72, and his 24-year-old girlfriend seem happy, they turned to the topic of women who date much younger men.
Pop superstars Cher and Madonna, who are 78 and 66, respectively, are both dating men about 40 years their junior. That fact prompted Carvey to ask the others if they thought women who gain power seem to date younger partners, just like men who get power.
âYeah, absolutely. That happens,â Maher said, citing actor Kate Beckinsale dating comedian Pete Davidson when she was 46 and he was 26. âWhen they do it, itâs empowering. When men do it, weâre perverts.â
Carvey then tried to get analytical, musing on whether women are really attracted to wealth and fame or whether theyâre attracted to the underlying personality types that tend to achieve success.
Maher, however, wasnât done with his Golden Bachelor idea.
âBut donât you think that would be a great show?â he asked. âBut with women that David and I are attracted to. And that doesnât make us bad people.â