Officially, Buckingham Palace has maintained what it must hope is being seen as a dignified silence in the face of Prince Harryâs new memoir Spare.
However, the first signs of pushback strategy are now starting to filter out from behind palace walls, with friends of the late Queen Elizabeth II telling senior reporters at the Daily Telegraph that Harry and Meghanâs âambushingâ of the family, by making shocking revelations to the media in the final years of her life, âhad an impactâ on her health before she died in September last year.
The Daily Beast was told last summer that the queen was suffering from bone cancer, subsequently confirmed by an unofficial biography by her and her husbandâs friend Gyles Brandreth, which the palace has not contested.
It therefore seems unimaginable that Harry and Meghan were not at the very least aware of the fragile state of his grandmotherâs health as they made damaging allegations in TV and media interviews. The queen was also worried what further revelations would be made in the Princeâs book, Spare, which was originally due to be published last year, the paper said.
The Telegraph report is by royal correspondent Victoria Ward and associate editor Gordon Rayner, both highly credible and experienced reporters.
It quoted âfriends of the late queenâ as saying that the prospect of the book âwas playing on her mind in her last months,â with one source saying: âThis did have an impact on the queenâs health in her final year. It did take its toll.â
The queen went to great lengths to try and keep lines of communication with Harry open, describing him as âmuch-lovedâ in public statements, but the friend said his status as a âmuch-loved grandsonâ made the âalmost weeklyâ attacks even worse for her.
One source, described as a âfriend of the late queenâ told the Telegraph: âShe never wanted to deal with confrontation, even going as far back as the start of Prince Andrewâs troubles, and this stuff was shoved in her face on an almost weekly basis.
âIt had an impact. She had lost Prince Philip, and then the constant ambushing of the Royal family by a much-loved grandson did take its toll. At that stage in your life and your reign, you just donât need that on top of everything else.â
A second source, described as âwell-placedâ confirmed they had no doubt that the queenâs health suffered as a result of the Sussexâs media attacks.
The first source added: âHe says he wants a reconciliation then he sticks this enormous machete in their backs,â and mused, âHow are their kids going to be part of a family now? Itâs out of the question.â

Britain's Queen Elizabeth, Prince Harry and Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, in 2018.
REUTERSHarry has also been accused of hypocritically invading his family memberâs privacy.
One extraordinarily personal revelation was that Charles told Harry he was âpersecutedâ at school and still carries around a childhood teddy bear.
A âroyal sourceâ told the Telegraph: âIt is hypocritical for him to talk about other peopleâs mental health. The king may have spoken about his troubles at [school] in public, but itâs not for Harry to go into all that. The problem is he just doesnât have any grown-ups advising him.â
Another source said: âIt is very hard to understand how he has squared that in his own mind, given his passion for protecting his private life.â
The development came as Harryâs book was greeted with a mixture of disbelief, mockery and anger in the U.K.
A focus of particular criticism has been Harryâs decision to publicly declare he had killed 25 enemy combatants in Afghanistan and that he regarded those he killed as âchess piecesâ not people.
Disquiet has continued to grow this weekend with critics saying he has endangered himself and his family and provided terror recruiters with a valuable propaganda tool.
Former British Army Commander, Colonel Richard Kemp wrote in the Telegraph: âThe Duke has now created a separate problem for himself. In essentially bragging about killing members of the Taliban, who now rule an entire country, he has placed an extraordinary target on his own back. His apparent disregard for life might feed the jihadist propaganda machine that is used to inspire Islamist attacks. Already, a Taliban spokesperson is calling for the involvement of international courts, where âcriminals like Harry who proudly confess their crimesâ will be prosecuted.â
âWhat an own-goal from a man whose concerns about his own security have been well-rehearsed to the extent he has taken legal action against the Home Office for what he sees as their failure to provide him with adequate protection.â
And celebrity ex-Marine, Pen Farthing, who runs a Kabul animal rescue centre, posted on Twitter: âWell I was a Royalist until today⌠Cheers #PrinceHarry You have been very badly advised I would probably say. And glad you thought through the security implications of those of us still out in #Afghanistan trying to bring about some good. #idiot #notmyprince.â
Colonel Tim Collins, a legendary leader famed in the army for a pre-battle speech he made before the Iraq war, told Forces News: âHarry has now turned against the other family, the military, that once embraced him, having trashed his birth family,â and condemned his ârejection of family and comradely love that he badly needs.â