There are few times in life when Iâve ever truly felt at peace, experiencing an equilibrium of bliss, comfort, and exhilaration. I felt that when my head was buried inside of Bridget Everettâs tits.
In New York City, Everett is renowned as one of downtownâs finest cabaret performers. Her shows at Joeâs Pub are the kind of immersive endeavors that would have the most buttoned-up among us fleeing the theater as if chased by Jason Voorhees in a slinky silk minidress. For others, itâs churchâan ecclesiastical celebration of raunch, casting off inhibitions, and really, truly, carnally feeling things.
A talented singer with wanton stage presence whose comedic timing is wielded with surgical precision, Everettâs shows are a hybrid of intimate storytelling, safe-space construction, and then debauchery as she erupts into song.
These are songs in which she purrs, âWhat I gotta do to get that dick in my mouth?â while caressing audience membersâ heads. Or âTitties,â in which she stalks through the lounge ad-libbing about the different kinds of personalities she could ascribe to the bosoms she passes. (âYou got those baby-blue titties,â she winked at me, before shimmying up to my lap and forcing my face into her own dĂ©colletage.)
Thereâs a spark of magic that flickers around Everett as she does this. Itâs not just crassness for the sake of shock. Itâs transformativeâthe opportunity to feel unbridled, to access your secrets, your desires, and behave in a way youâd never allow yourself to in any other situation (and then maybe reflect on why that is). Sheâs a force, âlarger than life,â as a wonderful profile on her in the recent New Yorker hails in its headline. And itâs why her performance in her new semi-autobiographical HBO series, launching Sunday, is such a revelation.
If youâre familiar with Everettâs cabaret work, youâll be blown away by what you see in Somebody Somewhere, a profound and meditativeâdare we even say quietâseries about a middle-aged woman who is back in her Kansas hometown following the death of her sister, wondering, maybe a few decades later than she should have, what the hell she is going to do with her life. And, maybe more terrifyingly, could she ever be happy.
Everett plays Sam, who is snarky and sarcastic in a way that puts off some members of her small-town Midwest family, but thrills others like her new friend Joel (Jeff Hiller), who works with her at the brain-numbing center where they grade standardized tests. But that humor isnât a shield. Itâs a complement to her warmth and compassion, her desire for the best for everyone that she loves, even if they canât be bothered to do right by her in return.
Through Joel, who volunteers for a church, she finds a bit of salvation. He tells a white lie to the reverend, asking for church space for choir practice. Instead, he uses it to stage an open mic night, his own cabaret of sorts, where the townâs queer folk, artists, and anyone who feels lost and yearns to express themselves can commune and perform. He drags Sam there, and as she finds her voice on stage, the empowerment and satisfaction echoes through the other complicated areas of her life.

Bridget Everett and Jeff Hiller in Somebody Somewhere
HBOEspecially in contrast to her cabaret persona, Everett is doing stirring, soft character work in this series. Even if you were among those who stanned hard for her breakthrough performance as a domineering, absent mother in the Sundance cult favorite Patti Cake$, youâd be surprised by how much sheâs capable of as an actress. This is a series that takes its time to establish a sense of place, who these people are, and what they want from the world. But once youâre there and invested, you wonât want to leave.
Everettâs Sam is a character who, like so many of us, has work to do on herself. That often amounts to an impossible task; for some, thereâs no summoning the required energy to overcome the inertia. Yet Sam does it. By the end of episode 3 when, with the light of an electric crucifix glowing behind her like a sacrilegious halo, she belts the final notes of âPiece of My Heartâ and rips her V-neck T-shirt to reveal her bra and cleavage, you can see a person whose spirit has been transformed. So, too, has yours.