At some point this weekend, Michael Sam, a 6-2 261-pound defensive lineman from the University of Missouri, college all-American and 2013 SEC Defensive Player of the Year will hear his name called during the 2014 NFL Draft.

Heâll be at home, and the scene will unfold in a manner pretty much identical to that of the 256 other young men across the country; massive men perched on the edge of their couches, surrounded by friends and family as they await their reward for years of grueling, brain-rattling work on the gridiron, in a room filled with anticipation and grim, almost unbearable tension that will be shattered by a wild, jubilant eruption of howls of joy and back-slapping hugs and weeping moms.
Of course, Michael Sam isnât just another prospect. On February 9, he announced to the rest of the world something his college teammates had already known for months beforehand; that he is gay.
Sam is neither desirous of the attention nor does he want his story to be different from his fellow draftees. As he said at the NFL Combine, âI just wish you guys would just see me as Michael Sam the football player instead of Michael Sam the gay football player."
Right now, thatâs not entirely possible. The difficulty is that both Michael Sam the football player and Michael Sam the gay football player are being evaluated as a prospect by a multibillion-dollar business, specifically one that treats both its potential and current workers like hunks of very large, profit-generating meat that can and will be discarded or shunned at the drop of a hat if they in any way imperil the bottom line.
So yes, thereâs a question of when (or even if) heâll be drafted, but that question is in inexorably tied to this nationâs slow, staggering lurch towards accepting the basic truth that gay people are just that; people.
Samâs stock has fallen somewhat precipitously in the days and weeks since he came out, from a projected 3rd rounder to an assumption that heâd go at some point between the 4th and 7th rounds, to a storied number-cruncher like Nate Silver projecting that, âbased on a historical assessment of players who were rated similarly by media scouting projections, Samâs chances of being drafted are only about 50-50.â
A recent article in the Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel gave 21 NFL scouts the chance to air their thoughts (anonymously) on Samâs abilities. The general consensus was overwhelmingly negative, repeatedly harping on his âtweenerâ status and lack of standout athletic abilities, with 12 of the 21 said they wouldnât draft Sam at all.
One scout from the NFC stated that, âMost of his production was hustle stuff. There's production, but he's short, he's not a really good athlete and he doesn't play good against the run, he said. âHe's kind of a one-task pass rusher. Just run up the field. And they swallow him up and kind of push him around. It doesn't fit with being SEC defensive player of the year. But that's just kind of what he was.â
An AFC personnel official added, âIt's a tough fit when you're short and slow and a try-hard overachiever. That's the issue."
It would be great to think that this is just a purely objective analysis; that after countless hours pouring over game film and collecting information that the brain trust(s) of the 32 NFL franchises have determinedâas they will with countless other prospectsâ that despite Samâs achievements as an amateur, his skills wonât necessarily translate to the pro game.
Alas, thatâs not the case. These selfsame talent evaluators are also discussing Samâs sexuality. As Bill Polian, the former general manager of the Buffalo Bills and vice president of the Indianapolis Colts, made clear on ESPN Radio. âOne of the questions you would ask is, as a football player, is he worth all of the trouble weâre going to have in terms of the early going with media, with involvement by the league office, with involvement by special interest groups, et cetera? Is he worth all that trouble?â he said.
âThere are going to be some teams, unfortunately, who say, âNo, he isnât.â Heâs not that great a player that theyâre going to be willing to put up with the early kinds of intrusionsâfootball people would view them as intrusions and distractionsâthat you will get, because this is not a sports media issue,â he continued. âThis is MSNBC. This is Fox News network. This is [Bill] OâReilly-type stuff that is going to get forced into your football program.â
Well, sure. This is the language the massive NFL machine sputters, coughs and wheezes as it grinds its way through the draft process. Everything about a player is poked and prodded and weighed, including things that have nothing to do with what occurs on the field. In this calculus, being an openly gay man is no different than the various spreadsheets packed with measurables, advanced statistics and both on- and off-the-record grumbling about âheartâ and âmotor.â
Anything that might cause a team to fearânot even be assured of, mind you, just potentially or possibly run the risk ofâlosing dollar one or hindering any employee within the organization from spending every waking millisecond pondering anything but the far more pressing, important questions like how the hell theyâre going to keep Calvin Johnson out of the end zone even with three to four defensive backs draped all over him, is a justifiable reason for red-faced, sleep-deprived men in khakis and officially licensed team gear to cross his name off of their well-guarded draft boards.
And thatâs their right, honestly. You might call it cowardly or a convenient way to dodge the fact that theyâre indirectly validating any bigotry on the part of both players and fans alike, and you wouldnât necessarily be wrong. But corporations are not and have never been moral actors, or entities in service of the greater good. They exist to make a profit. Period.
Expecting otherwise is enough to make one recite the parable of the Old Woman and the Snake.
History bears this out. Take our most heralded example of sports leading the way on civil rights, Branch Rickeyâs signing of Jackie Robinson. His motivation wasnât about righting a wrong; he was playing Moneyball, and the scores of African-American ballplayers toiling in the relative obscurity of the Negro Leagues were just a market inefficiency that he could exploit.
If you prefer a more current example, the NBA didnât give Donald Sterling the boot solely because they were appalled by his repugnant, plantation mentality. (If that were the case, heâd have been gone years ago.) Rather, the powers-that-be were petrified by the wildcat strike by the players that was reportedly in the works in advance of the Clippers-Warriors playoff game, not to mention the shrinking gate receipts and fleeing advertisers.
Taking a principled stand in sports or almost any aspect of life requires some kind of risk, whether itâs profit or oneâs personal well-being. Thatâs sort of the definition of an act of principle. Thatâs what Sam did when he came out. He knew that he was going to cause a media firestorm, and that said attention could impact his dream of playing pro ball.
He was willing to put that on the line because his endgame is a time and a place in which this isnât a news story at all, or as Sam said, âwhen we can live life in a world when gays don't have to come out in publicâ; where the next gay athlete and the one after is afforded the basic dignity of being allowed to be honest about him or herself as a human being without fearing a pro leagueâs hand-wringing about some kind of silly âbacklash.â
It's happening, too. Itâs happening when Jason Collins bodies up opposing bigs for the Brooklyn Nets, doing the same work heâs done throughout his 13-year career with nary a peep from sporting press.
And itâs happening when Derrick Gordon, a sophomore college basketball player at UMass, cites Collins as an inspiration.
But Samâs wrong about one thing. On Wednesday, after he was given the Arthur Ashe Courage Award, he said, âYou know, I donât think there is anything courageous I did.â
Heâs wrong, for all the reasons outlined above. I get his humility and his desire to put the focus on the issues at hand. In that sense, heâs right. It isnât about him. Itâs why he doesn't want ESPNâs cameras present when he does find out where heâll be plying his trade.
The next steps should be a great deal easier. When Sam is selected, or even if he signs as an unrestricted free agent, heâll be just another player, going through the rigors of a season.
And the hack-ish desire to use Michael Sam for whatever pet partisan causes one please will fade, as it has with Collins, as he starts doing football things.
We wonât get to see all the actions that really begin to change hearts and minds; the other current players still in the closet that are talking with Sam right now, or the countless ways that an openly gay athlete can and will begin to shatter the stereotypes and prejudices that sadly still are present, and thatâs probably for the best as well.
What Sam did and is doing is brave and big. Itâs also human.